Bridesmaids, your besties, your sisters, those girls you feel you can't not have?
There's a whole political situation with choosing bridesmaids…. you have to have your sisters, there's always that friend you've known forever who you've always said would be a bridesmaid but you're simply just not as close as you once were but 'you can't not have her'!
So here are a few things to consider when making the big decision...
- You are the bride…. don't feel pressured into having someone you don't particularly want to
- Numbers don't matter, if you want 10 have 10! if anything the more the merrier! I've been a bridesmaid 5 times and it was definitely more fun being one of 8 than 1 of 3
- Consider the girl… it might just be nice for you to ask but for her it is a true privilege and honour to be considered a special member of your inner circle
- And finally remember the reason for asking… because you are marrying the person you want to spend the rest of your life with... that is the priority, the other stuff doesn't really mean that much when it all comes down to it!
Your girls can make you laugh, cry, drive you crazy and give you the best memories ever, enjoy spending these special moments together, they don't happen every day x